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Are you an accompanying spouse, you properly miss the structure and status a job provides. It gives you on the other hand a lot of freedom, and if used correctly a posting period can be a great gift. My experience is that counselling / coaching is important for all accompanying spouses whether it is their first posting or they have been expatriated so long that it has been their lifestyle. Coaching all kinds of spouses is what I have been doing for the longest time and something I really like to do. Contact me for a non-binding chat. I normally work by Skype.